22. The Crossroads
“We have to get used to the idea that at the most important crossroads in our life there are no signs.”
Ernest Hemingway
Keywords
Decision
Separate
Multiple
Split
The Crossroads Card Meaning
The Crossroads is a fairly literal, neutral card. It means a fork in the road, a decision, or separation in some cases. As with any Lenormand card, it is important to look at your context.
In most contexts, the Crossroads is showing you a choice. Look to the surrounding cards to determine what the choice is involving. When it comes to love, the Crossroads tends to take on a negative polarity. When next to the Heart or Ring Cards, it can represent a non-committal relationship or infidelity.
When the Crossroads appears, there is almost always choice. Although I agree with Mr. Hemingway’s quote for the most part, I would like to add that although there may not be external signposts, your inner compass can be consulted. Don’t be afraid to ask clarifying questions if you feel you need more information.
Card Combinations with the Crossroads
Did the Crossroads card show up in your reading? Check out the card combinations below. Please note, there are almost infinite meanings for Lenormand combinations. These combinations below are interpretations I have discovered over the years. The context can change EVERYTHING so use these meanings as prompts for your intuition to sing with the context of your question. I can't stress enough how important context is!
Crossroads+ (CHOOSE FROM BELOW)
Rider (1) = Embarking on a decision
Clover (2) = A serendipitous decision
Ship (3) = Embarking on a choice
House (4) = Decision regarding family
Tree (5) = A health professional
Clouds (6) = Clouded decision making
Snake (7) = False choice
Coffin (8) = End of options, painful choice
Bouquet (9) = Multiple gifts
Scythe (10) = Sudden decision
Whip (11) = Debating a choice
Birds (12) = Discussing a choice
Child (13) = New options
Fox (14) = Decision concerning a job
Bear (15) = Financial decisions
Stars (16) = Expansive options
Stork (17) = Decision to improve
Dog (18) = Choice regarding a friend
Tower (19) = Decision regarding an organization/institution
Garden (20) = Choice regarding friendships/social engagements
Mountain (21) = Options are blocked
Mice (23) = Decision brings stress
Heart (24) = Decision to be made about passion/love
Ring (25) = Commitment decisions
Book (26) = A hidden option
Letter (27) = Document concerning a decision
Man (28) = A man’s choices (in love context, multiple love interests)
Woman (29) = A woman’s choices (in love context, multiple love interests)
Lilies (30) = A long awaited decision
Sun (31) = Positive options
Moon (32) = Choices regarding romance
Key (33) = Decisions leading to success
Fish (34) = A lot of choices
Anchor (35) = Secure decision
Cross (36) = Painful choice
(CHOOSE FROM BELOW) + Crossroads
Rider (1) = Arriving at a decision
Clover (2) = Multiple opportunities
Ship (3) = Change of plans
House (4) = Choices concerning family
Tree (5) = Multiple health conditions
Snake (7) = Multiple problems
Coffin (8) = Split/separation
Bouquet (9) = Multiple gifts
Scythe (10) = Multiple procedures
Whip (11) = Multiple arguments
Birds (12) = Multiple discussions
Child (13) = Multiple children
Fox (14) = More than one job, side hustles
Bear (15) = Splitting from mother figure
Stars (16) = Destiny providing opportunities
Stork (17) = Multiple improvements
Tower (19) = Multiple organizations
Garden (20) = Multiple gatherings
Mountain (21) = More than one blockage
Mice (23) = Decision creates stress
Heart (24) = More than one love interest
Ring (25) = More than one commitment
Book (26) = Multiple education options
Letter (27) = Multiple offers
Man (28) = In love context, multiple love interests
Woman (29) = In love context, multiple love interests
Sun (31) = Many options for happiness
Moon (32) = Creative outlets
Key (33) = More than one option for success
Fish (34) = Abundant opportunities
Anchor (35) = Departing from security
Cross (36) = Multiple burdens
Example Spreads with the Crossroads
Note - I am not a fan of the Crossroads card in the deck pictured below because it does not denote at least two roads.
QUESTION:
I am dating someone and want to know if I am the only one they are dating. What is their dating situation?
ANSWER:
They are seeing multiple people.
QUESTION:
I have a medical condition. What is ahead for me when it comes to treatment?
ANSWER:
You are likely to have multiple procedures/operations.